So, I am 5'4, curvy, have blue eyes and honey blonde hair. And men say the damnedest things to me. Things that my friends can hardly believe. But these things are just a normal part of my life. So I have asked around, and one theory is, men think they can speak to me in a sexual, disrespectful, overly assuming way because I'm blonde. I don't know if this is the case, but is seems likely. During the course of the stories I will tell here, you will see for yourself. But the most recent example happened just this week.
A good friend of mine decided she wanted to have a little fun with a guy whose personal ad she found on the internet. She happened to know this guy, and wanted to see how he would respond to her if he didn't know who she was. So, she wrote to him in her normal tone and style, but used MY photo instead of hers. Now, before she sent the photo, he was polite. After she sent the photo, he sent her a list of several highly personal questions "What sexual positions do you like?" and "How many times a day do you like to have sex?", etc. Keep in mind, this was only his second email with her. The first one, polite, the second, not so much. The only thing that changed was he saw the photo of a blonde. Me. This friend of mine, she said "men never talk that way to me, so it must be the hair".
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2 comments:
Mermaid, you write well! Also, thanks for including my diabolical shenanigans on your first post!
Hmmm... I have to admit men are strange, being one is even stranger. I have never said anything like that to a woman. I've certainly gotten rowdy in my own way, but never quite like the examples mentioned in this post.
Besides the obsessions listed on my blog, I'm fairly reserved in nature so I might not be the best guy to offer perspective.
I guess we're gonna have to see this hair and figure out what's going on...
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